I believe that when you travel you see things in a very different light.
Before I begin a journey I get so excited I can hardly stand it. The thrill of planning what to take, getting packed, how to get to my destination who I will see, and what I will do takes over my brain.
I am so spontaneous that I rarely tend to details in advance. That to me lends to the adventure. I forget when dealing with others they might be a detail oriented person and my lack of detail can make them a little crazy!
I always just assume that everything will fall into place and I will have a blast and no one will be put out on my behalf. Idealistic...maybe. If you don't speak up are you enjoying yourself?
Not too long ago someone asked me if I had any rituals? I thought to myself.."me, rituals...ahh NO!" You know what I have discovered? I do! Nothing major but little things that I do without thinking. Wash my face, apply my moisturizer. Little taken for granted pieces of my day. Creature of habit, no, well, maybe a little. Takes a little edge off the spontaneity but I suppose if you don't realize it it's okay. For some odd reason I don't like to be placed in the category of a creature of habit. Wishing to be foot loose, fancy free, listening and answering to my spirited soul, blown by the wind of instinct, being held accountable only by my whims. Only if such were possible or obtainable.
So I am thinking that it is a trade off. Considerations have to be made. Being true to my bohemian side is perfectly acceptable, as long as I can convey my wishes without expecting all things to revolve around me. Simple things in travel are as exciting as planned tours and costly excursions. Being with loved ones, sharing a meal, talking into the night and laughing until you wet your panties is the ultimate experience! People watching is free and can entertain even the fuddy duddy's in any group. Take lots of pictures, keep the memories in tack, journal and above all be present!
I am learning every day, I am becoming more complete each trip. I am living in each venue and loving it entirely!
It's my life, I am living it, and I thank you for allowing me to be part of your life and sharing with you!!
